OK, I have to admit it... I'm NOT addicted to gaydar. I now I may be going against a trend here, but if I want to hook up with someone, I find gaydar pretty tedious and ultimately often very disappointing. In a way, it is much quicker and more fun to go out, flirt and then hook up.
However, I do really like facebook. Of course it isn't really a great tool to hook u, but to find friends and keep in touch. Yesterday, someone pointed out, that there is a kind of facebook for gays called OUTeverywhere. I heard of it before, but never really got the hang of it, especially as it seems to force the paid membership on you all the time. Not that the few bucks matter, I just find it annoying. In any case, I think I will give it a try, as I find it usually a lot easier to pull in real life if I want to (gosh, that sounds cheesy!) and certainly a lot more entertaining than hanging in front of gaydar/gayromeo... chats, getting bombarded with cock pictures and then having pretty much no fun afterwards.
Will keep you updated, but in the meantime, if you have any tricks or hints of how to use OUT, then please let me know ...